Watching NHK showing Hawai'i. How I miss that place. Yes, I do recognise some of the places. King Kamehameha, Aloha spirit, downtown, etc etc etc and ppl are simply friendly..

God Xmass is coming very soon. Gee..!!

I have been listening to BBC Radio 4 Drama of the Week for some time now. I always love to listen to most of them. Wicked, smart and to some extent, to my opinion, most are just geniusly composed.

Whatever happened to those blokes. Damn, I have just been quite active in facebook recently. To my surprise, I met, not physically surely, those 'friends' or 

'acquaintance' through fb. It's a surprise really. 5 or 10 years or more can really change ppl physically. I guess, shall I meet them physically they might be surprised abt me too hehe. I don't know. Time can do many things to ppl I guess..

I think I have been learning to be more calm, collected and bearable on stupidity haha.. Indeed, I am not that easy exploded like used to be. I think it's good hehe.. Is this because of the human nature, getting older haha, or simply because the environment where I live now influenced so? This what I can't answer. But as I said it, I'm bit calm I guess.

Drought, haze due to forest fires and a lot going on around. On the other side of the world,  refugees crisis is no near end. The world is constantly moving, on speedy phase this time.

Cats...

Whatever happened to that bloke..

Been how many years now? 3 years? not posting anything. there has been desire to activate this blog until today i made it. yayy!!!

Anyway, i just want to say that have you ever felt of losing flame in you? Well not losing actually but you feel the glow is not as strong as it was. what happened to me? lol

No, that's not entirely true tho. Life is great.. Exciting job, gaining weight haha.. and yup a lot things in my list to do.. hehe..

Serendipity

been in love with james blunt songs these days. back to bedlam. i wonder how i came to this song. is it from my housemate talking about songs in one fine night and mentioned abt james blunt? dont know. but i then i found it in my music storage. it was just nice, the voice and lyrics.. i like the 'you're so beautiful'. just like connecting to someone i met these days. damn. she's just beautiful. simply beautiful and that's all..  unlike the lyrics in the song saying meeting in a subway, it is somewhere here though. but you know you're not going any point further. exactly. that's what the song is all about. that's the point of all if you like. 

good songs of blunt though. but i also know that it might be replaced by other songs which i dont know in the future. yeah, just like before blunt, this awesome guy michael buble with his 'home' song occupied me all the time long. i think it's simply because i was trying to find out what 'home' is for me. i was at the stage of searching of what 'home' is. that's the point. home that refers not to a particular place but its also about someone.... it's about someone, it's about home. your soul mate if you like..

yeah, that's the mello side of me. simply because my 'rap' side of me never dies... eminem.

it is true when it's said you never know how precious it is until you lose it.. and unfortunately there is no and never will be a time machine in which you can go back in the past to change what's been done. that's the beauty and mystery of life. but it's fair to say that you can have a second chance as well... 

staying true and honest.

can't stop thinking about it and came across a poet of sapardi djoko damono. one of the faves. copied from internet..

Aku Ingin

Aku ingin mencintaimu dengan sederhana

dengan kata yang tak sempat diucapkan

kayu kepada api yang menjadikannya abu.

Aku ingin mencintaimu dengan sederhana

dengan isyarat yang tak sempat disampaikan

awan kepada hujan yang menjadikannya tiada.

  

 this is deep. it's beyond the word "sederhana" as it says.... it lies on the core essence of kayu kepada api, awan kepada hujan and then tiada.. it's about totality, if you like... ah, well...deep.. for HSO.

Returning home after more less than two years away. Exciting but also full of surprises. Meeting new people, visiting new places and gaining new insights if you like.Yes, it's not easy on the beginning, in the first weeks after arriving home but i'm very happy i can cope with that quickly and well. However, there is something missing though. indeed, feel empty. something missing.. the places i used to visit don't change much but the feeling changes a lot. and i thought we can start a new one but find out we are in distant parts of the world again. AGAIN. by the time i want to be closed with her, she's in the place where i was off. it's like reversing.

but, it won't be me if not taking it into superstitious level. i mean there is something out there to be learnt by me but couldn't see it right. and thanks to find it out soon. i came to realisation that indeed i shall change. changing to be a better one. as once said, and it is true that the autism in me can kill. can shut a relation off. i'm an autist, literally. when it comes to feeling, it's not easy to communicate it. and when i immerse myself in something, hardly can manage myself to the other thing.

but again, as i said, it won't be me if not seeing things on the bright side. perhaps i can see her in england sometime soon. yup.

again and again I can't be more thankful than to have my supervisor's feedback. I know I feel sometimes it's almost a never ending work which that's the nature of it but the way she  encourages me to do the improvement of my work (literature review) is just wonderful. Encouraging not rubbishing if you like. I know, I've been doing that for ages now but it's fair to acknowledge that the focus of the study has been changing as well. I used to think of it as 'a moving target'. On one hand, from the bright side for sure, I am happy and grateful to what I've been through. Reading a lot stuffs. But not to the level of fed up yet. Nope. I won't go there. but on the other hand it's just taking much time and a lot efforts. nevertheless (hah, i sound like a true academician now lol) it's all under control :)

a friend of mine puts a quote on her skype status, “Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go.” T. S. Eliot. Inspiring!! indeed..

roller coaster. that's how i feel. when i am high to do my research, i'm just simply can't afford to stop thinking despite the signals of my body asking to stop it. i simply can't do it. i try to sleep but my mind keeps working even harder when i sleep. gosh, on the contrary, when i am at the lowest curve, i don't want even to take a look any letter of the papers. my feeling is like the weather, when i simply get bored (?) or curious or i don't know how to describe it, it drops to minus degree..
interestingly, those come and go within days. it's like the world price of commodities, fluctuating. lol. but, i don't want to complain. i promise me.. neve ever..

why am i blogging now....
oh, well.. time to be off..
but hey, there was a thought lately came to me saying 'what if i quit'.... oh god.. but thanks to paul, a friend of mine. he's on his last year completing his phd. he said and encouraged me to just go for phd. for another one or two years more.. hmm..that sounds interesting..

oh well,.. off now.. sleepppppp

I remember when first  time I bought my umbrella in a store at University Centre. It was summer and raining. At my surprise, I found quite annoying that it was frequently raining and it's summer. In the store, I grabbed my umbrella and while paying for that, I made my small conversation to the seller. He's a quite old man. I started my saying "It's summer, isn't it?" He looked at me and then smiled and said "Well, that's what it's said in the calender, I'm afraid". Then he continued "Welcome to England" and kept smiling.. I smiled too, of course and that small conversation cheered me up. 

Now, it's quite like spring. It's not spring. The weather is just like spring. And those of us expecting snowing this winter like last year's are quite surprising to find the weather. When I checked weather forecast, it says it's 10 degree, more less. It's bit windy and a lot raining somehow.. Anyway, sometime life is surprising. Ah, remember Forest Gump saying "Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you are going to get" until you get it.

I don't go anywhere this break though. I'm very much occupied by my writing as a deadline is approaching. And I do also spend time for watching movies, somehow. I watched again John Pilger's video about Agro Power and how food is used to be a means of political, economic and military influence. That film setting was in 1970s but the message is still quite relevant now. Then, I just wonder how the 'poor countries' couldn't manage to feed their people. For some reasons, I suppose it has something to do with the corruption in a way that the 'food aid' is used by the elites of the 'poor countries' to corrupt. Secondly, sometimes it has something to do with the good willing in a way that the elites simply don't care and are occupied by efforts to maintain their power, privileges and whatever they can get rid of from their political position. In the other end, powerful country who control the world food distribution use it as a means for imposing whatever they want over the countries need it. What a perfect confluence and dying because of the hunger is what it could make. That's the point of what John is trying to convey, I think. And I think it's quite true when it is said "There is enough for everybody's need but not enough for anybody's greed".

Anyway, thank you to Yingzhen for delicious dinner. Dumpling, chicken-carrots-potatoes, and eggs-tomatoes. And for sure, all the conversations...

New year is coming and resolution, anyone? :)


 

Snow is not coming to Christmas this year

December. Time passes so soon and then in a blink it will be 2012. God, sometimes I just can't believe how times fly away. I think I keep saying this over and over. And the changes I wish for, most of them do not take place. No piercing, no gaining weight, no much progress and so on. Well, but that's not entirely true though. To be fair, the other half true is that I started to enjoy taking pictures again, there was a time I found facebooking is just wasting time and therefore I turned it off many times, my thesis is on the way and so on..

Indeed some change but others remain so. Oh yeah, another good change, I don't complain about the weather any more. I successfully switched off the negative attitude on the weather. I came to realisation that no matter how hard I complain about it, the weather won't change but remains so. And then I enjoyed the weather most of the time. Oh, but the snow is not coming this Christmas and that's fine :)

 

I sometimes if not very often feel lonely though. Yes, I do. It is not that there are not people to talk with but talking to someone who is on the same board and willing to spend time for hours just talking whatever it is, is not easy here. I have been used to shout my 'wild thinking' if you like from politics to whatever it is freely. But now, there is no much chance to do that. 

I think I cope with that by feeding my brain with some critical movies or readings. Lately, I enjoy watching John Pilger's documentary films. As usual, John has a fascinated story telling ability to explain things and yet shaking if you like. Not only due to its way to connect between 'big' thing and 'every day reality' faced by ordinary people but also the messages he wants to convey which is critical in the sense that it's quite opposite from the mainstream picture. I enjoyed reading New Internationalist as well.

No white Christmas anyway... Global warming?? Hah, that's tough to discuss now..

random

i need a sleeping angel

house to live in

for sale, anyone?

night and lonely

empty

oh my days,.. how i miss you yo..

going home. just before dusk.. late autumn